I want to make it very special for her. But im worried that im not going to . Do you have any advice?Do you have any advice a virgin on their wedding night?
You need to be very gentle she will probably experience a lot of pain. If she's like I was she will bleed heavily too. If she does just handle it and don't say or do anything to embarrass her.Do you have any advice a virgin on their wedding night?
Just take it really slow and listen to her. It will probably really hurt her. Don't expect it to be amazing. You might want to just get naked the first night or shower together or something since you'll probably be pretty tired after the wedding.
I'm newly married and we also saved ourselves for marriage. The first time really hurt. But it just gets better! It's beautiful that you've saved yourselves and can give the total gift of yourself to your spouse. That in itself will make it special and all your love-making special. Good luck.
If it's the first time for both of you, don't worry too much. She will find the first time special as long as you're loving toward her and take a little time first - don't just jump right in there. Figuring out what the other person really likes physically takes time and only gets better as time passes.
Women find the first time special because of the person they're with (if they are in love), not because the guy was so studly.
Ignore advice from the 'players' and the guys who think they are. Women tell their friends the truth about a guy after sex - and while the so-called player is telling his buddies what a man he is, his girlfriend is telling her friends how she had to fake it again because she didn't want to hurt his feelings.
Be content to give your wife to have a romantic evening the first time, and I guarantee she will remember it as special. You'll both move together toward hot and OHMYGOD as time goes by.
Oh - one more piece of advice - never ask her if she climaxed. If you feel the need to ask - she didn't. Trust me, you will know when that happens and there will be no mistake about it!
It is already. Relax. You two are giving the best gift of all to each other. Purity. Yes!!!
Now, to make things go well....be prepared. Are you using protection, as not to have kids right away or have you two talked about it.
Well, you should. Talk and Learn how much you both know about sex and also, you can remember that to stay relaxed and let things occur naturally, slowly, and gently....all will be OK.
Honey, it's both of y'all's first time, if you *** too fast she wouldn't know the difference cause she has never do it. Take your time and get a rhythm and you will both be satisfied.
Just be yourselves. Everything will fall into place.
Ask her what she imagines it to look like (candles? music? flowers?, etc.) set the room up like that. Then relax and have fun.
Have some champagne. She won't notice how much it hurts the first time and you might last a bit longer.
Just take it nice and slow, it'll come to you naturally.
aww ur so sweet......
put rose petals all over ur room and lite it up with candles.....
good luck =]
The main two important factors are: take your time, and make sure you have plenty of KY jelly. I'm sure the two of you have pleasured yourselves over the years. Get her to show you what she likes to do and you do the same - sort of a show and tell session. NO pressure. Take a leisurely bath or shower together. Before any actual attempt at penetration, make sure you are thoroughly slicked up with KY and that she is also. If she's not experienced she will be nervous, and that could cause her to not lubricate adequately. Attempting penetration when she is dry would lead to discomfort and even pain, so avoid that problem altogether with the lubricant. There are books in Christian bookstores on this very thing, and articles online also. When we do batchelorette parties for our brides to be at the church, we make sure we tell them about the practical end of things. The gift basket includes essentials like KY jelly, some items to ';clean up'; afterward, and a book like ';Intimate Issues'; or ';The Act of Marriage';. Both are very explicit in their advice to the young bride and groom on how to prepare for and enjoy their first experience. God designed your bodies to bring pleasure each other. He says to drink deeply of her well and let her breasts always satisfy you. In the Song of Solomon, the bride makes it clear that her hubby is satisfying her well also. Take the time to learn what prepares her body to receive you and learn together. It is such an advantage that you haven't been with other people and will not have learned any bad habits. You will learn together what both of you like without interference from previous relationships. God bless both of you and make that night a night to remember!
You can't make it special.
Your sexual session will royally suck. Hahahahahahahaha..........
Good luck, virgin boy.
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