Monday, August 23, 2010

My friends are thinking about sleeping together. What advice should i give them about contraception?

My friends are thinking about sleeping together (having sex!). I don't think it is a good idea, but i would like to tell them how to avoid a pregnancy resulting. What advice should i give them about contraception?My friends are thinking about sleeping together. What advice should i give them about contraception?
Hey Tasha Let em know Ur concerned like U said.My friends are thinking about sleeping together. What advice should i give them about contraception?
tell your friend, ';Don't be silly! Wrap his Willy!';





Also how old are you as it doesn't sound like any of you are of legal age. The reason there is a legal age for sex is that you are not ready before the age of 16 to have sex as your body hasn't developed properly yet!
well i really don't think it's your place to tell them you don't approve cause it really isn't anything to do with you. a simple 'be safe' is the most you should really say or they may think you butting in!
Get your friend down to a clinic on the pill and get her bf to use condoms because then you have double the protection!!
I think that you should just be honest with them and tell them that you don't approve but that you hope there safe. I would really encourage you to talk with one or both of them about weather or not they really are ready. I had sex for the first time when I was 13 and now many years later I wish i had waited. Today I strongly believe that sex should take place within a committed relationship, if you can find someone you really love and they return that love then I don't think anyone has the right to tell you what to do. I think the whole of idea of laws telling you how old you have to be before you can have sex is ridiculous, laws like the ones mentioned by someone else are just one more facet of the obsession we seem to have in this country with keeping young people down. Every day more and more laws are passed or proposed taking these decisions out of the family where they belong and into the courts.
let them know that having sex i a big decision in their life and if you do want to go ahead and have sex then please get on birth control and please wear protection as in condoms also let them know that if this protection is not taken then you may end up becoming a parent and if you are not ready for that then i would highly suggest that you have safe sex





Vicky
Tell them that PULLING OUT IS NOT A CONTRACEPTIVE METHOD OR ANY KIND OF METHOD!!





If they are younger than 16 tell them sex it's worth waiting for and that there is no rush.





If they are mature enough for sex they are mature enough to tell there parents and ask for advice on different types of protection etc. Also, they will be mature and responsible enough that if they did get pregnant, they wouldn't depend on anyone else for help!
Tell them you don't approve but say ';i hope u use protection';.
well wat about telling them about abstinence and that they should save it to lose it to someone very special or if they really want to have sex tell them to use protection like condom and pill hope this helps
use a condom
tell them you dont think its a good idea and they should wait but if they dont be safe and make sure you know what your doing before you do somehting you will regrett%26lt;3
Buy them some condoms
tell them this '; they already have a foot in the grave'; meaning that by deciding to have sex, they are half way to having a kid. reguardless if they know what it means it's a creepy saying, and idk if i would have sex after someone telling me that...
Tell them it will ruin their friendship and to wait for sex until marriage!

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